美丽心语-创造婚姻奇迹的小字眼

The little words that work marriage magic

Using terms of endearment like honey or sweetheart from time to time is a small but important way to keep a marriage loving. These terms make the other person feel loved and special. There are some other words that can help make your spouse feel special and aware of how much you love and appreciate him.

婚姻生活中，时不时地使用一些甜蜜的称呼像“亲爱的”，“甜心”可以使你的婚姻保持爱意。这些小字眼会让对方感到暖暖的爱意和别样情趣。还有一些其他的字眼，可以让你的另一半感到新奇和被爱的幸福感。

"Thank you." We would not never thank a friend or co-worker for helping us out. But sometimes we forget to thank the person who we love most: our spouse. All couples forget now and then to thank each other for all they do. But thanking each other is a good habit to fall into because gratitude is necessary for the growth of love. Knowing that their actions are appreciated makes a couple more giving toward each other, and the more you give to each other the more your love will grow.

“谢谢”。当我们的朋友或是同事给予我们帮助时，我们一般都会对他们说声“谢谢”。但是我们却常常忘了对自己最亲近的另一半说声感谢。夫妻之间总会忘记表达对彼此的感谢之意。然而，养成对他/她说“谢谢”的习惯是滋养爱情的必需品。当对方知道自己被肯定，被欣赏时，双方会更加懂得付出的含义，爱情也在这过程中收到滋润，慢慢成长。

"Please." Please, like thank you, is easy to forget to say, but it too is very important in a relationship. Because it is another way of letting your partner know you don't take him for granted and that his time and effort count.

“请”。和“谢谢”一样，容易被大家忽略，但是在婚姻关系中，它的确是十分重要的。这个字眼让你的另一半感觉到他/她并没有被忽视，他/她所做得一切都是值得的。

"You are great." Do you know that this sentence can make him feel good about himself all day? Now that you know how nice it makes him feel to be complimented, you should try to do it as often as you can. As an added bonus, he will begin paying compliments to you more often. This is not surprising since, experts, say, compliments are a two-way street. So the more compliments you give, the more you get.

“你很棒”。你知道这句话会让他一整天都充满正能量吗？既然大家都知道称赞的力量，那就多说一些吧。反过来，作为奖励，他也会多多的赞美你。根据专家的研究，这并不奇怪，赞美本来就是双向的。给予对方更多赞美，你也会收获更多。

"I love you." in a new way a small variation such as "I love you more each day" can make a big difference in how you feel about each other. When you say "I love you" the exact same way over and over, your spouse may start to discount it. On the other hand, a fresh phrase can help keep the relationship fresh. For instance, you can express your love for him by saying "I'm so glad you're in my life." I'm sure he will be really impressed and touched, and you two will feel closer.

“我爱你”。也可以这样说“每天爱你多一点”，这会使你们之间的关系发生微妙的变化。当你对他/她一遍又一遍地说“我爱你”时，这句话可能会有些“贬值”。另一方面，新鲜的词儿也可以增进你们的感情呢。例如，你可以说“生命里有你出现，我很幸福”。我相信对方一定会非常感动，爱情也在无形中更加甜蜜了。

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